In every aspect of life, there’s always room for improvement, even with the most solid of romantic bonds. Before your bad habits start destroying a good thing, nip it in the bud. Break your bad habits by catching them early! Have a look through our list of the top things that annoy and kill your sex life.

  1. Not talking openly about sex
    Whenever your partner does some ‘remarkable’ bedroom trick and it turns you off, talk about it. It might be uncomfortable at first, but let’s rather not suffer in silence. Letting your partner know what you like and dislike, will put you on the road to a happy sex life.
  1. Cuddling up with your Kindle/iPad/Laptop in bed
    We’re all in a different world when checking Facebook, sending that last email, and binge watching Grey’s Anatomy. Power down an hour before bedtime, and focus on being in bed with your partner.
  1. Too much wine
    Alcohol can snuff our passion, as well as turn it on. Know exactly how much to drink. Too much alcohol can make it difficult to orgasm, and make you tired.
  1. Allowing Spot to sleep in the bed
    Sex is a great tension reliever, so make sure you close the door for the night. You and your pets will benefit from having some space!
  1. Not allowing your partner personal space
    We all need me-time, and suffocating your other half is one sure way to get them heading for the door. Schedule time each week to do the things you love – separately.
  1. If you wait for the right moment, you might wait long
    Kissing and caressing can turn you on, so don’t wait for the ‘perfect time’ to make love. Just do it, even if you’re not 100% in the mood.

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