It’s a well-known fact that it takes the average man a meagre three to five minutes to orgasm, while most women need at least twenty. Getting your girl off doesn’t have to take fire hours of Tantric foreplay though. To get off to the right start, you need the right tools for the job, and we’re to help you!

Firstly, become O-educated

Orgasm is a reflex and the result of a physical process that includes steadily building arousal. Some people will start out a good deal closer to orgasm when they start having sex. It all depends on how aroused you are, and how hot you are for your partner. Make sure you know what gets your girl in the mood fast – a steamy porno or an erotic novel. Have your arsenal ready!


Start her engines by kissing her for at least three minutes. It reduces the stress hormone cortisol. Slide down to her neck on occasion, and remove an item of her clothes.

Open sesame (Sésame, ouvre-toi)

Orgasms are not all about foreplay. Climb politely aboard and start the final leg of her leg trembler.

The clitoris is undoubtedly going to steal the spotlight for this exercise, as the sensory epicentre is your main line to orgasm. Try the Coital Alignment Technique by starting in the classic missionary. Pull back so the base of your penis rests on her clitoris. Brace your feet against the foot of the bed and rock backwards and forwards rather than thrusting. Your penis should gently massage her clitoris.

Sensory overload is a great technique. Simultaneously stimulating her G-spot and clitoris is by far the quickest route to orgasm. When you do something that creates a positive response, keep going at the same pace and with the same amount of pressure. Focus on both and you’re well on your way!

Use a vibrator or a vibrating cock ring to get clitoral stimulation, or get into positions that stimulate the clitoris. Doggy style, bridge and girl on top works well.

Now, save your new modus operandi for next time. Since you’ve just executed a delightful orgasm with precision, your lady will soon be wanting it on demand.

Happy climaxing!

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