The digital age has made sexual encounters a lot more accessible to us. Most of us have engaged in virtual sex in some way or the other, without realising it. Those racy texts you’ve been sending and the sexy video chats you’ve been having all fall under the canopy of virtual sex. If it happened in the digital space, it’s virtual sex. We have Whatsapp, FaceTime, Zoom, and Snapchat…the list goes on. How lucky are we to be able to pick up a phone and have some sexy time with our partner halfway around the world (or in the next room)!
Embrace the digital world
Video and phone sex will surely help you ease up in the bedroom, build comfort and help you communicate. Communication is by far the most important sexual enhancer- when you’re engaged in each other mentally, it’s easier to connect sexually. If you’re curious about igniting the flames of passion with the help of digital tools, read on. We’ve done all the dirty work for you!
In the mood? Reconnect outside of the bedroom. Get out of your routine and send an outrageously sexy text to your lover for all-day pre-play. A sexy, teasing photo is also in order to create excitement. Keep it thrilling but subtle, and don’t go overboard – it is not an act of sex itself but just a hint of sexual explicitness.
Not sure what to say? Start here: “Just sitting here, thinking about your _____________ and wishing I was _____________.”
Still not sure how to sext? SlutBot can also teach you to sext using an AI chatbot.
Bring toys to the playground
Bring your vibrator and other toys to your video chat and play together. Latter-day sex toys allow you to have long-distance sex from halfway around the globe, and it’s almost as good as being in the same room with your partner. Our online store has seduction laid out all over the place and sports a variety of remote-controlled vibrators and app-controlled vibrators for your teledildonic pleasure.
Talk about sex. Aloud. Talk dirty and be flirty and ask for what you want. Be creative, keep things fun, and enjoy a fulfilling sex life even if you don’t live in the same city
Avoid distractions and set clear boundaries
Switch off the phone and laptop and have an actual sexy conversation. Be present and at the moment. Of course, you should have boundaries. If you’re at any point uncomfortable, stop. Have a safe word à la Anastasia Steele. Make sure you trust your partner not to send screenshots and sexy pictures without your consent.
A word of caution
There is really no such thing as internet privacy. There is always a risk that your privacy will get infringed upon, so understand the risks and the reality of what is at stake. Have 100% trust in your partner, unless you’re an aspiring porn star.
Enjoy safe sex on your digital platforms!