We no longer live in the day and age where sex is a forbidden topic. As sexual norms shift and taboos wear away, we are more likely to shout out from the rooftops about the things that turn us on. Just like it’s okay to talk about sex, it’s okay for us to have sexual fantasies.

The great thing about sexual fantasies is that pretty much anything goes. You don’t have to act on any of them, and they’re not limited at all by any inhibitions. Doing something thrilling and sexy, particularly if you think you might get caught in the act, could just be the turn-on that you need.

Today we take a look at five of the most common female fantasies, from vanilla sex to hardcore crazes.

Stranger danger
The thought of a get-together with a mystery man is enticing. Sharing a passionate night with a beautiful stranger and letting loose is at the top of the fantasy list. A wild night of candid sex sounds great, because you can’t be bothered by being judged. You’d probably never see the mystery man again!

Sex in forbidden places
The excitement of having a romp in a public place has been a fantasy for as long as fantasies exist. Public bathrooms (if you’re not a germophobe), movie theatres and shopping malls are all popular. It could be risky (think criminal record if you’re caught). And for the sake of the sanity of passersby, rather keep this one a fantasy.

Domination
Being dominated or dominating someone else was made popular by the likes of 50 Shades of Grey. Although there’s a colourful palette to draw from here, domination is something that should be experienced with a trusted partner. It can involve anything from gentle tying up, to extreme BDSM. Really anything that your adventurous heart desires can go here.

Pegging
Pegging is done where a woman has anal sex with someone using a strap-on. If this intrigues you, speak to your partner about getting down with it.

Ménage à…how many?
Group sex can be amazingly erotic and put a fresh spin on things. If you like the freedom to be nude in front of other people who are just as bare, a threesome, foursome, or ‘moresome’ might just be the thing for you. Don’t go rounding up all your friends for a group sex date though, if you do act on your fantasy, make sure you share it with people who has the same mindset as you.

Sexual imagination can be a deep ocean of enjoyment, but remember, it is just a fantasy. The old adage of ”sexual thoughts are dirty” no longer applies, so there is no need to feel guilty about your thoughts. If you need to act out on your fantasies, just make sure you do it with someone you trust.

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