There are certainly hundreds of fancy oral sex tricks to try on your partner, and you don’t have to use any crazy tactics to set the fireworks off. They key ingredient to awesome oral sex is enthusiasm, and making your partner feel wanted and confident. Read on for great tips to sex up your man or your woman.
Warm up
Don’t dive into a full-on oral. Take a little time to do a some teasing. Stroke, blow, nibble, lick, kiss or run your fingers ever so slightly around your partner’s thighs, perineum, penis or vagina. For the satisfaction of both of you, consider starting off in a comfortable position, perhaps with pillows under her back and butt, or him sitting in a chair. When the sparks start flying, you can move to your preferred position closer to the big show. Wait until he or she is panting, flushed, and just about begging for it. It’ll be more than worth the wait.
Fellatio is all about tongue
Men tend to like the way in which you either press your tongue flat up against their penises or create other simulations of what a vagina would feel like. Point your tongue out, flick it around, and get imaginative. Head bobbing is okay, but there’s so much to be added on.
Cunnilingus is not all about tongue
Women like for their partners to get the mouth and hands involved. Don’t just stick out that tongue and rub it up and down on their clit. Use your lips for french kiss-like movements. Change up the movement patterns, but keep it unchanging and constant when she’s about to orgasm.
Improve Your Technique
Explore with different ways to perform oral sex. Try licking, kissing, nibbling, sucking, and even biting. You don’t know what you like until you try it. A flat tongue feels very different than a pointed one: flat covers more area and pointed is more intense. If you’re aware of how the different techniques feel to your partner, the better off you’ll be at knowing when to do what.
It’s not all about the clit
The clitoris is an important part of sexual fulfilment, but it doesn’t need all of the attention. For most women the clitoris gives off intense sensation, so it’s more of a closer than an opener. Consider starting elsewhere and leaving it for the end.
Make eye contact
Making eye contact during oral sex might be intimidating to some, but chances are that your partner will find it irresistible . Glance up at your partner and maintain eye contact for a few seconds. This move is fabulously personal!. Extended eye contact causes a release of oxytocin, the bonding hormone, in both of you. Oral pleasure goes way beyond any porno fantasies. Connect with your partner, and let them know you’re hungry for them. Go slow, then fast, then slow again. Make sounds of appreciation, as if you were licking a mouth-watering ice cream. Your partner will be assured you’re not there out of obligation, but because you want to be.
