The only person who knows what works for your body is yourself, but even though that may be the case, you may want to explore sexual pleasure by playing around with several sex toys. However, choosing the best one that fits your sensual being can be harder (excuse the pun) than you think.
So if you want to give your self-pleasure routine a big shakeup, bring toys into the marital bedroom, or generally upgrade your sex life to 2.0, Allure Sensuality Emporium has something special for you.
‘It’s really simple,’ explains Sari Cohen (owner and founder of Allure). ‘We need to be mindful that nearly three out of four women need direct or indirect clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.’
‘And don’t forget the pleasurable benefits, which are proven to be highly beneficial for one’s mental health. Using sex toys is a form of self-care that cannot be underestimated.’
So, who can use a sex toy? ‘Well, it’s simple, really. Everyone can use an adult sex toy,’ Sari delightfully adds. ‘Yes, sure, many cannot reach orgasm through penetration and sex toys play a significant role in helping those who cannot. But many like to explore new ways of self-pleasure, which is nothing to be ashamed of.’
Essentially, the more orgasms the better is what Sari is implying and the more you have, the better way of understanding your own sexual pleasure and this can only be beneficial to understanding your own sexual being and growing your relationship with your partner.
Sex toys that help you find your inner pleasure
‘There are different types of sex toys to choose from,’ Sari explains. ‘Vibrators are an obvious and well-known favourite and a reliable and trusted companion for many. You have simple and easy to use products, but there are also more specialised designs that focus on both external, clitoris-stimulated needs and the more internal, phallic options.’
Discovering what is best for you requires time and learning how your body responds to its sensual stimulation. Experimenting with both internal and external vibrators will help you gauge your pleasure levels while also knowing what works for you in a comfortable, safe space. And while sharing these pleasurable moments with your partner can enhance the sexual experience, communication is key in the exploration of your own desires.
Take Clitoral vibrators for instance; these vibrators focus on the external, with the clitoris obviously the main star of the show. For some, this is a highly enjoyable practice and brings the user to an intense orgasm or even waves of climaxes. Even though this is a handy tool to play with yourself on your own, sharing this experience with your loved one can be a breath of fresh air and key to unlocking that pleasure that sex brings us.
‘The gentle pressure that is applied to surround and stimulate the clitoris is a wonderful sensation that mimics oral sex,’ Sari adds. ‘It’s a great starting point in the search for pleasure by yourself. You can also bring your partner into play and your pleasure levels can be elevated to another level by allowing your loved one to dictate proceedings or listen to what makes you feel intense pleasure by bringing this highly useful tool into the couple’s bedroom.’
There are also G-spot vibrators with its main function to stoke the fires of the internal erogenous zone, commonly referred to as the G-spot. Although that term isn’t totally accurate or defined as such, it’s worth exploring where that exact spot is.
‘One must realise that we are all different, and our wiring is not the same,’ Sari points out. ‘So there is no actual exact spot to focus your attention on, but here is where the fun part begins when using these types of vibrators because as you are exploring alone you can gauge your pleasurable senses. There is an element of letting yourself go completely without anyone being there.
‘It’s also a useful tool to bring into your sexual experimentation with your partner,’ adds Sari. ‘You can explore new levels of pleasure that will not only enhance you and your partner’s sexual health, but be beneficial to understanding your own sexual being and growing your relationship with your partner.’
Finding your own unique sexual pleasure should be a fun exercise and something not to be ashamed of – not only are you learning about what makes you tick, it’s about finding the right tool that can give you great pleasure. The same can be said when choosing the right type of sex toy.
And this fun and explorative journey doesn’t need to be a solo affair, with the shared experience providing a pathway to pleasure that is often taken for granted.
You ultimately know what works best for you, Sari and the dedicated team at Allure Sensuality Emporium respects that.
With our years of experience in sexual pleasure education and adult pleasure products, We are here to help you find that pleasure you seek.
