Whether laughing or reprimanding, caring or smothering, mothers tend to occupy a mythic space. Children view them as divine beings who nurture and heal, adults may have to learn how to see them as actual individuals with their own imperfections, personas and history. They can be resented by some, quietly tolerated, or loved to the point of melodrama.
We’ve learnt everything we know from our mothers, and it is she that lays the foundation for your life. Though all the efforts they make in raising children are not always revered, Mother’s Day gives us the opportunity to tell them how much we appreciate, respect and admire them. It’s also a reminder for ourselves to aspire to do our best for our own children, as our moms did for us – and our best can start with something as simple as a hug.
Motherhood is also more than bearing children. It is the essence of who we are as women, defines our very identity, our nature and our unique traits. A mother is a teacher, a leader, a care giver, a food provider, a shoulder to lean on and a friend. If you are any of these things, YOU are a mother – the world is full of lost souls needing nurturing and leadership.
When deciding what to do for your mother this year, remember that some of the greatest gifts have nothing to do with “stuff”, but consist of experiences that bring joy, peace, and lasting memories instead.
Here’s to a marvellous day for all the Mighty Moms of the world for the matchless service they render in every field of life!
“Mama was my greatest teacher, a teacher of compassion, love and fearlessness. If love is sweet as a flower, then my mother is that sweet flower of love.”
— STEVIE WONDER
