Sexual pleasure is the universal fuel of life that nourishes body, mind and spirit, but is a rather lubricious creature and is often weighed down by psychological baggage. It consists of those affirmative valued feelings induced by sexual stimuli, encompassed by a wide range of pleasures, from the soothing sensations of sensual massage, to the explosive feelings that accompany orgasm.
There is no one magic pill when it comes to having good sex, as no move or position works for everyone. If you’ve been wondering what you can do to better your sessions between the sheets, read on for some pointers to get you on the way to maximise your and your partner’s pleasure.
Great sex can be challenging if it’s only about focusing on one area of the body. The most important thing is that the primary sex organ is satisfied for both women and men, this organ being the brain. In the end, it’s nearly all mental, even though sex involves touching some very special spots. This is one good reason to up your romance and foreplay game – it can take sex from satisfying (or not so satisfying) to spectacular.
Orgasm is such a prominent part of the deed that it becomes easy to make it into the one thing that defines great sex. Although it sounds crazy, it’s true: orgasm isn’t always essential to a woman’s sexual satisfaction. When you get overly focused on getting you or your partner to climax, your behaviour can have the opposite effect. The best way to have an orgasm is to not require one. So relax your Big-O attitude – your laid-back approach can put you both more at ease, making it easier to climax.
It’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean. Yes, the cliché is true: It is how you use it. Only a small percentage of sexually satisfied women say penis size is critical to their pleasure. Passion is what keeps women coming back for more, and sexual chemistry is what makes sex incredible.
Massage can mean the difference between great sex and no sex at all. It almost seems too easy, but it is a great way to rev up a sexual encounter. The skin-to-skin touching adds the intimacy component, plus, massage can improve circulation (a vital function for roaring sex). Start in a smart place like the back.
Give the boudoir a boost by introducing a sex toy. Open each toy and read the instructions together – part of the fun is checking your toys out, turning them on, and watching your partner’s sexy face as you try each one.
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Happy rolling in the hay!
