Alas, it is Women’s Month, and in addition to paying homage to all the women of our nation, we also celebrate the female body in all its beauty. Women’s sexual pleasure, like men’s, is important to overall emotional and physical well-being, but achieving a healthy and satisfying sex life doesn’t happen by magic. It takes self-reflection and candid communication. Although talking about what pleasures you can be difficult for some, it’s a topic well worth talking about.
The clitoris was considered the only trigger for the female orgasm for many, many moons. Unfortunately, finding the clitoris turned out to be a intimidating undertaking for many men, and an even more mysterious female pleasure spot hidden within the vagina has been found since. You may have heard of the G-Spot. Or not.
The G-Spot, popularised by sexologists in the ’80s, was discovered by Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg circa 1950. As it turns out, stimulating the G-spot produces strong sexual arousal, very powerful female orgasm; and in some women, it even results in female ejaculation, informally known as “squirting”.
So, what is this G-Spot?
It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the para-urethral gland, which is similar to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a pea, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. The G-spot consists of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it — especially if you learn how to master your lady’s G-spot effectively.
It is located about 5 to 8 centimetres back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The front wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.
Making your lady happy doesn’t always have to be a daunting task. The vagina generally reacts favourably to being licked, sucked, blown on and touched. It also likes having two fingers put inside it, once it’s skilfully lubricated and engorged with blood, then beckoned in a gentle, come-hither way.
You can manually stimulate the G-spot with a steady tapping motion with two fingers, but you might find it easier to stimulate it with various toys. Any dildo can be used for this, but the ones best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and curved. Many are made specifically for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve are specifically designed to take the guesswork out of G-spot stimulation.
Why don’t you try our Discover G-Spot Gel or G-Kii G-Spot Stimulator?
