BDSM 101 Workshop

Your Browser History Just Became a Reality: BDSM 101 WORKSHOP …because you know you’re not reeaally VANILLA!

Feel that primal rush of excitement when you imagine pushing boundaries? That delicious tickle when you consider taking power, or surrendering completely? You’ve felt it, haven’t you? But endlessly scrolling through guides and late-night searches only scratches the surface. It’s time to transform that intense BDSM curiosity from a secret thought into exhilarating, tangible reality. Safely. Confidently. And while having a damn good time! Your search for true expertise ends here. This is your moment. Stop waiting. It’s time to PLAY!

And that’s exactly where I, Sabian, step in. I’ve walked this path, I live and breathe this space, and I truly understand. Here, awkwardness just isn’t in our vocabulary. We dive straight into authentic, real exploration – with hands-on guidance where it counts and clear demonstrations for everything else – no holding back, empowering you to do it all confidently.

This isn’t just about theory or curiosity. This workshop is one in a series, where we turn theory into actual tangible play – arming you with practical skills and knowledge you can apply immediately, building your confidence and absolutely wowing yourself (and your partners!).

What You’ll Master:

• BDSM Decoded: I’ll strip away the mystery, revealing BDSM’s true meaning and why it is actually even ‘a thing’!
• Find Your Authentic Power: Let’s ask yourself the right questions to truly understand where you stand in power dynamics – whether you’re a Dom, Sub, Switch, or somewhere intriguingly in between…
• Master Consent & Limits: You’ll learn the crucial art of negotiation, understanding Hard Limits vs. Soft Limits, to craft agreements that make play truly satisfying and absolutely safe.
• Conquer Impact Play: I’ll guide you through the techniques for intense impact play – from satisfying spanking to mastering floggers, crops, and more. And trust me, this alone is an art, and I’ve certainly got some secret sauce here!
• Sensual Bondage Basics: Learn essential, safe rope ties and explore the intoxicating art of consensual physical restraint. We’ll focus on key conceptual understanding and practical demonstrations to get you started confidently.
• Mind Games Unleashed: We’ll explore the potent psychology of denial, control, and mental play that truly fires up BDSM.
• Dirty Talk Mastered: I’ll arm you with powerful phrases and show you how to deliver them naturally, sparking impulsive excitement and delicious surprises for your play partner.
• The Power of Aftercare: Understand why aftercare is non-negotiable and practice vital techniques for comfort and connection after intense play.
• Your Kink Starter Kit & Beyond: I’ll equip you with practical gear recommendations (what you actually need), where to buy them, and guide you on finding fellow playmates, and local kink play venues.

Workshop Details:

• Duration: 3.5 Hours of Pure Gold (You’ll be surprised how fast it flies!)
• Date: Friday, 11th July 2025
• Time: 6:30 pm SHARP!
• Location: Allure Sensuality Emporium, 12 Heather Street, Milnerton, Cape Town.
• What to Bring: Just your open mind, curiosity, a yoga mat, and something comfortable to sit on. Any practical items for exercises will be provided, but you’re absolutely welcome to bring some of your own kit if you like!
• Food & Beverages: Some refreshments will be supplied to keep your energy up. Do bring a bottle of water in case!
• Dress Code: Come as you are – dress comfortably and authentically.

Important: Rights of Admission Reserved

To ensure a safe, respectful, and productive environment for all participants, Rights of Admission are Strictly Reserved. We expect all attendees to be open-minded, consensual, and respectful of others. Maintaining anonymity and discretion within the group is also paramount to fostering trust and comfort. Any behavior deemed disruptive, inappropriate, or harmful by the facilitator will result in immediate removal from the workshop without refund. This is a space for genuine exploration and learning, and maintaining a safe space is incredibly important.

Meet Sabian: Sex, Intimacy & Dating Coach

At Succsexxx, I bring a no-fluff approach to all my work. I offer 1:1 coaching (and workshops like this one!) based on my belief in real exploration in a judgment-free space, empowering you to own your pleasure. I’m here to help you nail your goals across all sorts of topics related to sex, intimacy, and relationships, delivering both theory and hands-on practicals. Rest assured, your BDSM exploration is being navigated by someone who truly knows the ropes.

It’s Time to Claim Your Kink.

Enough waiting. This is your moment to be bold, shed the “what ifs,” and claim the incredible pleasure that’s rightfully yours. Secure your spot now and embark on your BDSM journey!