2021 is here, and as humans we like to review, refresh, and rearrange at the dawn of a new year. If your love life has felt a little stale this past year, it is time to promise yourself a fresh start, go find your happiness, or merely work on your current relationship. We have shortlisted a few ideas to make your relationships a little more exciting.
If you are single
- Go on ‘healthier’ dates. Separate the chaff from the wheat and tell your prospective date that you are hypersensitive to bars and restaurants, then observe how they come up with unique suggestions. This will be a great test of innovation, and personality!
- Invest in a vibrator. We have sex toys to meet every single one of your needs.
- Date people you would not normally date. You might be pleasantly surprised!
- Try a new sex position each time you have sex.
- Ask your partner what he/she likes in bed and tell them what you like.
If you are going steady with a partner
- Practice better listening skills with each other. Make eye contact, don’t interrupt and tune in to non-verbal actions.
- Improve gratitude toward each other with word choices and gestures. Try saying ‘I love it when you…’ and praise, thank and compliment your partner.
- Reconnect in the bedroom. Get out of your routine and initiate sex in a different way, hold hands, spend time together and engage each other purposefully.
- Put phones away during dinner and have an actual conversation.
- Find a new hobby that you can explore and enjoy together.
- Choose positive relationship behaviour, and see your love life transform in 2021.
We wish you good health, peace, love, and prosperity in the year to come!