With all the negative publicity around sex it’s hard to decide whether or not you should take the plunge and explore sex toys. It can either be for yourself or something to enjoy with your partner as part of your healthy sex life. There are so many websites selling sex toys. They all promise the best products, best service and offer the best shopping experience. Only one problem, they have thousands of different toys in hundreds of categories from beginners to advanced, products for men and women and everything in between.
You are soon feeling overwhelmed, and confused thinking to yourself How do I know which product is right for me? Where do I start?
Purchasing your first sex toy is a very important step it is crucial that you’ll have as much information as possible. It is important to know that the sex toy industry is vast and is unfortunately not regulated and there are a lot of cheap products out there that could harm you, rather than give you the sexual experience of a life time.
When purchasing your first sex toy always remember:
- If you are new always go for hypoallergenic
- Brand names – Research the name of the manufacturer. Big names have their own websites with useful information on their products. They don’t always sell online but often they’ll have lists of suppliers that stock their products.
- Technology: Seems random mentioning this when it comes to sex toys. The technology used determines how sex toys are designed to fit your body, quiet motors (nothing worse than having the loud buzzing distract you from the task at err…hand), motors are stronger, products have rechargeable batteries and have suave ways to control your device. From the tips of your fingers to the buttons on your iphone.
The most popular first toy is a clitoral stimulator, they are small discreet, come in different colures and shapes. Some are softer than the others and you get rechargeable or battery activated toys.
They are flirty and fun and guaranteed satisfaction.
Start with body safe silicon vibrators that have different settings. This will allow you to explore and find out what turns you on. Once you are comfortable and have graduated from this feisty toy, you can explore other products and continue exploring and find out what drives you.
